Session 20

Is the work of discipline worth it?

From 2 Samuel: A 5-Week Devotional

Shepherds in Kenya use the thorny branches of the acacia tree to make a tall, thick sheepfold, guarding their animals from predators. 

God placed a sheepfold around David in the form of boundaries, but David broke out — committing adultery and murder. God responds, “Out of your own household I am going to bring calamity on you” (2 Samuel 12:11). 

By 2 Samuel 14:25-33, David’s son Absalom had killed his brother for raping his sister. Absalom ran away. When Absalom returned, David refused to see him. So, Absalom set Joab’s barley on fire to get David’s attention. 

The chaos in David’s family was another example of how failing to follow God’s instructions created calamity. When David failed to discipline his children, he was ignoring God’s command to love Him and love others. 

Three Things to Remember About Discipline

1. We discipline because we love.

“The LORD disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in” (Proverbs 3:12). Setting boundaries and holding our children accountable keeps them safe and expresses our love. We may feel rotten, but letting our children do anything they want leads to heartache and the self-centered lifestyle we see in David’s family.

2. Disciplining our children starts with disciplining ourselves.

Leading disciplined lives models discipline for our children. Spend time seeking God’s will through prayer and the Bible. Not addressing a sin might be easier, but it’s selfish and shows a lack of self-discipline.

3. How we discipline our children can affect generations.

If our children don’t respect boundaries, it will be hard for them to set boundaries for their own children. Our families’ legacies start with the decisions we make today. 

Jesus is “the good shepherd” who protects, guides, and provides (John 10). Jesus disciplines us because He loves us. Looking to His example and building barriers in our children’s lives keeps them from danger and provides a loving place where they can learn to follow Jesus.

Reflect:

  • Are you modeling a disciplined life? What’s one step you can take today to model self-discipline?
  • In what area have you failed to discipline or shepherd your children? What is one thing you need to change?

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Session 1

It’s OK to allow ourselves to grieve

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Session 2

Respecting someone after they hurt you

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Session 3

When following God, always ask for directions

Have you ever followed your GPS only to end up at a dead end or a remote area? Perhaps you started on your journey without looking at the...

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Session 4

Does God call us to quit?

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Session 5

Has your anger gone too far?

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Session 6

What “they” say doesn’t matter

If you live for people’s approval, you will die from their rejection. Anybody who has ever lived through high school knows that is more ...

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Session 7

Why waiting is worth it

David knew God had called him to be king, but the journey from the field to the palace was hard fought and often bloody. David could have...

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Session 8

Why should I ask God what to do?

Most of us don’t like being told what to do. Often, pride makes us want to rebel. Maybe we think we should know what to do on our own, or...

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Session 9

Sing like no one is listening

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Session 10

God always has a better plan

It’s often said that when we make plans, God laughs. Sometimes, we make plans without considering God at all. But other times, we think o...

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Session 11

Why would God choose me?

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Session 12

What is the secret to success?

The old farmer was frustrated with his new-fangled saw, and there was no way he could cut two cords of wood a day as promised. “This saw...

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Session 13

Come out of the shadows

Mephibosheth is born into a wealthy and prominent family with a future that is secured. This grandson of King Saul and son of Jonathan is...

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Session 14

A life of harmony or hostility

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Session 15

What popcorn can teach you about sin

Have you ever sat down with popcorn at the movies? You’re not super hungry, but it’s the thing to do, so you take a piece — then a few bi...

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Session 16

Did you hear what she did last night?!

Who doesn’t like flattery and attention? What if the person doling compliments is not your spouse? What’s the harm with a little innocent...

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Session 17

Is God fair?

“It’s not fair!” If we’re parents, we’ve heard our children say this many times. Even if we aren’t parents, we’ve said it ourselves. We’v...

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Session 18

The difference between love and lust

Today, love is a very misconstrued word. We throw the word love around so much the true meaning has been watered down. Love has become mo...

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Session 19

Why would I reconcile with God?

In 2 Samuel 14:1-24, the wise widow helped David see that his actions did not reflect the heart of God. 2 Samuel 14:14 (NIV 84) tells us...

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Session 20

Is the work of discipline worth it?

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Session 21

How do you know who to trust?

Do you know someone who will say one thing but do another? It can be pretty annoying. Whether it’s doing your fair share of a school or w...

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Session 22

Choose your battles wisely

Have you ever heard the phrase, “Choose your battles wisely”?  Maybe your mom told you this when you asked advice about how to handle a ...

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Session 23

How to handle the haters

“Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words can never hurt me.”  Contrary to the childhood rhyme, words do hurt. Justified or not, ...

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Session 24

Pride: a fatal flaw

In 2 Samuel 17, Absalom tries to steal the throne from his father. Hushai, one of David’s confidants, pretends to be on Team Absalom in o...

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Session 25

Do you act before you think?

Have you ever done or said something before thinking about it?  You can probably imagine a dozen instances when you wish you would have ...

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Session 26

Getting over the grip of grief

Loss is like a freight-train that hits us unexpectedly — then continues to drag us around the tracks for miles to come. When we lose a l...

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Session 27

Do for others what Jesus has done for you

After winning the kingdom back from his son, David makes a triumphant return to Jerusalem in 2 Samuel 19. It would seem like a perfect ti...

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Session 28

Your words can ease the tension

Two children grow up in the same home sharing the same environment. They know each other well, so they always get along with each other, ...

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Session 29

Is God your last resort?

Ever have one of those days? You know, when something goes wrong, and you think, “At least it can’t get any worse,” but then it does get ...

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Session 30

How do you feel about God?

Have you heard the saying: “What Susie says of Sally says more of Susie than of Sally”?  It’s is mostly used in reference to gossip, but...

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Session 31

How to praise God in all circumstances

A lot happened to David in his life. He went from being a shepherd to God’s anointed king (1 Samuel 16:11-13). He loved God and wrote som...

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Session 32

Waiting for a leader worth following?

David is remembered as Israel’s greatest king, but Scripture is full of reminders that David was far from perfect. His legacy is marred b...

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Session 33

What you need to lead others well

Would you risk your life to bring your commander a drink from his favorite watering hole? How about risking your popularity to defend the...

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Session 34

How to fight with God’s strength

As Christians, we fight battles on a daily basis. Some are internal, like the fight for personal integrity and purity. Others are on beha...

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Session 35

God’s character revealed

As the scorpion leaped from the fish’s back, landing on the river bank, the stinger hit its mark and the fish struggled to stay upright a...

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