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Sex Was His Appetite For Destruction

Hykeng Paul's Story

Sex controlled Hykeng Paul’s life from ninth grade. 

When he started playing competitive sports, the guys in the locker room talked constantly about sex, porn and masturbation - things Hykeng at the time knew nothing about.

Sex was what he thought defined being a man. Not having had sex meant he was lame. As a Christian, he had every intention to save sex for marriage, but the peer pressure proved too great.

When Hykeng lost his virginity at 16, what followed was a competition to see how many girls he could sleep with. His faith became a simple religious activity, rather than a living relationship with Jesus.

Hykeng’s constant pursuit of sex would have continued through college if he hadn’t had an encounter with Jesus that stopped him in his tracks and showed him how dark and desperate his life had become. 

But Hykeng was only just about to discover how destructive sex could be, how much the consequences of his sexual past would haunt him, and how much grace Jesus would give.

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