Forgiveness
Forgiveness is the key to getting over the wrongs others have done to us. When we choose to forgive — even though everything in us wants to hurt the person who hurt us — we are choosing to let God heal us and set things right.
This is what Jesus did for us. He forgave us for every bad thing we have done or will ever do. Then, He told us to go out and do the same.
Forgiving others does not mean you have not experienced hurt. The pain you feel is real and should not be ignored. Forgiveness is how we stop the hurt from the original offense from growing into bitterness and resentment.
If you’re struggling to forgive someone who hurt you, use the button below to connect with our Care Team. Or, keep reading to learn how forgiveness sets us free.
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